5 CLUES THAT WON’T KILL YOU,WHEN YOU TELL THAT YOU LOVE HIM FIRST…..

Surprise him with a Move

Ring the bell and its time to make the first move.

Hey Girly!its okay to make the first move.

You will not die

Lol

When you like someone,let’s say you love the man and the feeling burning inside you pushes you to express them,Just do it.

Sometimes these men fear us the women,the fear of rejection from a woman you want to fall in love with her.

The fear makes them shy and they can’t express their feelings.So before you loose that person;why don’t you make the first step?

You don’t need a knight in shining armor to sweep you off your feet and you certainly don’t need a man to initiate a romance between yourselves . In fact, I’d prefer he didn’t — I like making taking charge in love.

• You are not after some pseudo-macho.

You don’t need a guy to save you from your singledom.Thats completely a bullshit notion. While it’s great that a guy might be interested enough in you to let you know, you are certainly not waiting around for him to do so if he’s already caught my eye.

• You are not some prize a guy gets to win.

One of the things that really pisses me off about a guy making the first move is the way it feels. Having a guy chase you makes you feel like you are a prize to be won in his eyes. It’s as if he says the right words and does the right things, he gets to have you. Nope. I hate that.

• Expecting a guy to make the first movie is sexiest.

I don’t want to get into the whole ‘reverse sexism’ argument — I’m really not here for that. Still, expecting men to exclusively make the first move is sexist. There’s no other word for it. If we want to escape gender roles, we have to stop playing into them. The rule should be, man or woman, if you like someone, speak up about it.

• Putting that much pressure on a man is Unfair.

Some guys might love making the first move, but you can’t assume that every man is into it. You happen to like making the first move yourself, so why would you put extra pressure on the guy for no reason?

• If you want something (or someone),you go get it.

Go for what you want

You don’t want to brag (okay, you do), but when you want something, you are pretty single-minded about it. I will absolutely pursue a guy if I’m into him. Of course, if he makes it clear that he’s out, I’ll also back off because I know how to take a hint and don’t want to embarrass either of us. Generally speaking, though, chasing the things you want in life comes naturally — why should men be any different?