IMMATURE LOVE
Love isn’t something that you choose to do. It is this involuntary action. As involuntary as the beating of your heart. No one has the power to control it according to their will.
Everyone wants love. Everyone wants to be loved. Everyone wants to love someone. Love is an integral part of our lives. When we love love,there is always unimaginable feeling of closeness to someone. How many of you wish not to fall in love?. How many of you wish to live in a life with devoid of Love.
Love isn’t something that you choose to do. It is this involuntary action. As involuntary as the beating of your heart. No one has the power to control it according to their will.
At some point in our lives, you experience the desire, the attachment to be with one particular person who you feel makes your life complete, the attachment grows to the point you feel you can not live without the person, they become part of your life .Where you share everything together. But how many are lucky to have that particular person in their entire life. A few I believe!
I won’t ask you not to be immature in love. But I will ask you to learn how to mature in love. It’s not necessary that everyone you fall in love with is mature; some are immature that they fail to handle their own love affair issues. Don’t love if you know you are Immature.
You get into fights and throw-down shouting matches at other parties for your failure to solve your problems then make up later the following day…only to have the same fight again and again. You don’t talk about anything, apart from what you’re going to eat for dinner that night. Are these healthy and mature relationships? Probably not.
Why are you so obsessed with someone that you don’t want them to be with their friends,go out with their friends. You want the person to call you 24/7, even in the waking,you feel so low that if they don’t text you or call you,your day is ruined. Your obsession goes to cloud 9 when the person does something else on line and you starting feeling insecure. What is this Obsession all about? Like seriously???…
I know this might sound funny but what’s the point of being immature with someone you claim to be in love with and start checking their texts while they are in the shower or stalk them under cover of darkness.
Personally,my take on the subject is foggy, completely foggy. From my over looking point; I know love is the beautiful feeling that could ever happen to a person and yet is something capable of creating havoc.
I would tell everyone to fall in love with someone mature.Someone who contented with you; who you are. Someone who trusts your love for them and doesn’t call you names due to small fights. Someone who will understand you and in every situation that you might counter. Someone who will embrace your friends and doesn’t question your character with them. Someone who will not only talk about wanting to have sex with you but who will in very aspect of love life want to see you soar high like the might Eagle. Someone who will land on it’s feet when falling in love.
But then who says I am an expert in Mature love? Maybe I am not a trusted source.
Maybe, I am. Maybe I am not.or maybe ,I am in a wonderland and have no idea what to tell you or What to do with myself…
Probably You are the “Immature Lover”
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