THE BIGGEST COMMUNICATION PROBLEM IS WE DON’T LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND.

WE LISTEN TO REPLY

WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL AT TRNDER STAGE.

Everybody can say “I love you",But do you mean it?,We most often say the word and I love you but how genuine is the word coming from your heart .People misuse the statement and fail to understand what the word values.

Its obvious to be in a relationship and seemingly so happy falling in love but making that relationship to last long is difficult journey to reach.

Yah!it feels so nice in the beginning;the unending calls,texts,chats and those sweet arching words;”i love you";”i miss you";you mean the World to me and endless soothing words,but after a few days ,it slowly starts to fade away like a shadow disappearing in the wilderness with each day passing day for seemingly no reason to have that person in your life.

At some point ,you may be wondering why things didn’t work out.Its natural.

This is the common excuse most of us give"There is a reason why it didn’t work “.Yes there must be a reason but you could be that Reason.

You should understand that relationships are not static as people involved in it change over time;this makes the relationship to move with diversity;the way you take it ,is the way it will take you.

The person whom you loved or married is not going to be the same person over a certain period of time.Not only people;even their thoughts;behaviour;ideals;appearance and what not;Everything Changes Over Time!

This constant changes opens the door to numerous problems that can Ultimately kill the relationship. And your Relationship stands how well you understand and handle this changes;which in turn depicts the difference between the relationship that lasts and stands as an inspiration.

It takes alot of sacrifices;compromises;forgiveness;tolerance and commitment to keep a relationship alive.Its more than just giving your heart to someone and time to your partner to explore the beauty of life together.

Relationships are not always a jolly road to walk with easy heart and think everything is going on well;there is a battle you have to fight to make the relationship the idle you have always admired.

You have to cross hurdles inorder to reach your dream destination filled with love and joy.

DIVE INTO 5 REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL AT A TENDER STAGE.

• Lack of Trust.Lack of Trust is a major reason why relationships fail.You should know that trust is built and not demanded. As you fall in love;you start developing trust with one and another. It can be a nagging doubt of emotional infidelity,unreasonable rigidity to a physical affair or something that just doesn’t feel right about the situation..Over time,these unreasonable trust issues grow deeper resulting in a relationship breakdown
• Egocentricity..Ego is the worst of all the major destructive factors that has the power to break any kind of relationship.

The word EGO has just 3 letters but it has the biggest power to kill our twelve letter Relationship,so easily .Not surprisingly,Egoism is the number one reason why 99 per cent of relationships fail these days.

We all have Ego. But once we fail to manage;it can lead to a big disaster;particularly with your loved ones. When Ego takes over,you end up getting things your way.As a result,you tend to give priority only to YOUR own contributions and sacrifices while ignoring the efforts of your partner.

• Compatibility issues.is a strong pillar to build your relationship on solid foundation.

Some couples are together but not comfortable with each other which is due to lack of compatibility between them.

No matter how much ever they try to get along,they are not just compatible because they hang on superficial differences that don’t matter a bit.

Incompatibility can cause more frustration than it’s worth and can eventually tear down the relationship apart completely.

• Poor communication. Communication can either make or break a relationship.

Poor communication often leads to conflicts in relationships resulting in breakups;thus,good communication is very important for a healthy relationship.

The closer we are to someone,the more easily we are hurt and tend to the others as well.

Being a couple,both of you should effectively communicate your feelings,whether they are positive or negative.

The success of any relationship relies on one’s ability to communicate well.

• Anger.Anger is a natural and healthy emotions that everyone emote and feel from time to time.

However it can become a problem if it is too extreme,hard to control,or last too long.

Excessive anger is one of the serious concerns why relationships fails nowadays in particular. Anger arises when things do not go as planned,when you have been mistreated or wrongly accused or when there is misunderstanding.

Apart from this;even stress,frustrations and anxiety can also result in anger.

Anger,not only destroys your personal relationships;but also the overall quality of your life.