Maggie Olore
2 min readSep 1, 2020

WHAT IF YOU DIDN’T EXIST IN SOMEONE’S LIFE?

Self realization is the only thing that frees the individual rest are all bondages.

The mindset of “i will not live without you"is a worrying Depression that will not only destroy your inner peace but make you do something stupid.

Nothing!Totally Nothing will happen if you didn’t meet someone. You don’t exist Remember? Oncd you walk out of someone’s life;Remember this you dont Exist,stop crying after them.

The butterfly effects says that your non-existence might have huge consequences but no one would know that’s because you are not there.

The idea,the concept of you only exist because you exist and with it your identity.

Without you,the concept of you is as fictional and hypothetical as the multiverse theory and god (Vijaykumar,2016).

We need to stop the idea that ,once we leave someone’s life,they will not live without you!.Sometimes you are pain in their neck but they have no proper way to communicate to you.

Its absurd when you thought,the person you met today,will spend the rest of their lives with you.

Yes!you may think so,but you are wrong.

Yes!it happens sometimes;but,when that doesn’t happen,you have to protect your identity by starting over again.

Always ask yourself these questions.

  1. Did he create me?
  2. Who i am?
  3. Did i know this person before i was born?
  4. What is their importance in my life
  5. What do i really want from them?
  6. Why should i keep them or let them go?

There are reasons why you met someone and if that reason is over,then you dont exist in their way.

I always feel pitty on people who say that they cant live without their loved ones,for instance,you are in a relationship and break up,but instead of finding yourself,you keep on mourning for a broken pieces which will never be mended.

“What if you didn’t Exist?”

There is a purpose why God created you,and you have to find that purpose before burying yourself in Depression of someone who never wanted you in their lives.

The opposite in fact. You can breathe an enormous sigh of relief that they are releasing you to be free to move on. They can reject you for any number of reasons and many will have nothing to do with you at all,simply because you dont exist in their way anymore.

Don’t take the rejection personally. It is true that everyone experiences rejection sooner or later and it hurts a lot, but time will heal all wounds by protecting your identity.

Self realization is the only thing that frees the individual rest are all bondages.

Maggie Olore
Maggie Olore

Written by Maggie Olore

I write real life stories that inspires personal growth. I write how I feel about Life.

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